"When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot a hang on" - Franklin D Roosevelt
I'm not sure how to really start this off other than you've probably noticed the lack of posts. and the lack of posts consisting of my husband.
For months now we've been trying to work on things, but with no success. After long debates and conversations and mainly arguments, the decision is now final.
M and I are getting a divorce.
While it was the farthest thing from an easy road getting here, We both believe and feel that we will be better friends and better parents (which is most important) if we are not together. I know that we will both be a lot happier once everything is done and once we have gone our separate ways for good.
I haven't been blogging or tweeting much lately because I like to use these as an outlet but wasn't ready to talk to anyone or let anyone know what was going on. But as of last night, it's official and I'm ready to talk and ready to announce it.
Because really? The Blogosphere holds some of my best friends and y'all have been an amazing support system thus far. So I apologize for sucking at blogging lately. Even though I know you'll tell me not to apologize, it's understandable. I am.
and I feel A LOT better now that it's out in the open!
I thank you for your thoughts and prayers. They are MUCH appreciated.
xo
"Tomorrow is the most important thing in life. Comes into us at midnight very clean. It's perfect when it arrives and puts itself in our hands. It hopes we've learned something from yesterday." - John Wayne
43 comments:
I love you and am here for you. That is all.
I'm always here for you whenever you need me. You were there for me when I needed someone to chat with and I truly appreciated it.
I cannot honestly say that I know what you are going through but that doesn't mean that I can't be a shoulder for you.
Praying for everyone's peace of mind
Love you Sonja!
I know I don't know you in real life but I know you are a strong woman who will get through this. Sending thoughts and prayers your way.
I second Rachel's comment. I love you, my friend.
Thank you for sharing. You will get through this and you have an amazing support system {even if only virtual}. Big hugs.
Oh Sonja honey I'm so sorry. Know that we are all here for you. You're in my prayers.
It takes a lot of courage to share yourself like this, and I hope that by sharing it helps you to heal. Like you said, there are tons of people here to love and support you! Sending you hugs through the interwebs!
Jenn
Thinking about you! Divorce is never easy but if it's best for all parties involved, then it's the best choice. That's awesome that you will remain friends. I don't think alot of people who've been divorced can say that!
Sonja, I'm so sorry. I am sure that you know that this is the right decision and if it what is best for K then things can only get better from here. Just remember we are all here for you.
Good luck lovely :) We are all here and listening! You've very brave for putting this out here!
First of all, that is my favorite quote, hands down. It's such a good one, no matter what hardship you are going through.
Second of all, I'm sorry to hear this but it seems like the two of you made the right decision. I'm sure it wasn't an easy one. Hang in there. *hugs*
Thinking of you and sending my support!
Just found your blog from Jenn's. I'm your newest follower.
I can't say I personally know what your going through, but I have been around divorce enough in my life to know thats its a tough thing to handle. I wish you the best for your future and I'll be thinking about you. It'll get better!
Oh hun! You know us blog friends are here for you! *hugs*
hang in there hun. I love ya, and am sending all the hugs I can via the interwebz!!! Sometimes we just do what we gotta do!
Thinking of you in this difficult time!
Thinking of you, lady!
"Hugs" Thinking of you!!
Hugs and prayers your way!
Big hugs from Tampa! Hang in there girly!
I'm so sorry to hear this. Divorce is never fun but I'm glad that you both are taking the mature approach to this. *hugs* I will pray for your healing.
thinking of you sonja!
I'm here if you need anything. You are such an amazing woman and momma!
I'm sorry to read this :( But you know what is best for you and your family and I hope that everything will work out!
Praying for your girl!
Thinking of you and if there is anything at all that you need, you know that we are all here.
xo
Lots of prayers going up, my friend!
I am your newest follower! You and your family are in my thoughts and I wish you to have a great day.
Oh my goodness... prayers & best wishes for you & your girl! Been there, done that.. hardest thing I've ever done in my life! Please let me know if you ever need someone to talk too!! xoxoxoxoxo.
You deserve nothing less than happiness! Good for you two for doing what's best for K. More parents need to take your lead! xoxo
*hugs* mama!! Thinking of you and hope you're doing well. xoxo
Thinking of you!
((HUGS))
thinking of you sweet girl. i hope you know we're all here for you. even if we live in the computer ;)
xoxo
I am 100% behind you in your decision and please know if there is anything I can do!
It takes two mature adults to realize that they can be better parents ... I applaud you both for that!
Xoxo
sending positive thoughts to you and your family. it takes a brave person to make a difficult choice in the interest of those you care about most. be brave lady :)
You are so brave to do what is really right for you- sometimes that is really hard. You'll be in my thoughts for sure.
I wish I had some wonderful words to say to you, to help you, to hug you through the computer. I'm so sorry hun! I'll be praying for you and K. xoxo I'm here if you ever want to text/email/whatever!!!
So So sorry friend. Here if you need/want to vent :(
Glad that you are able to move forward, but I am sorry this happened. *hugs*
Been reading for months but never have posted. I'm going to run RNR Savannah (my first half too!) and will be running in my pearls (earrings that is!) for ya.
Sending hugs and support your way!
I'm sorry lady. Divorce is always a hard decision no matter what. Everything happens for a reason.
We are all here for you.
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